Como dar bons conselhos? - How to give good advises ?

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Tiago Arantes de Nascimento
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5 de abril
Antigo Técnico industrial
Como dar bons conselhos?

É engraçado como uma pergunta aparentemente simples pode ser tão complexa ao mesmo tempo.

Eu acho que um bom conselho é aquele que faz você reavaliar a sua própria vida antes de dá-lo a alguém, até que você seja o próprio exemplo.

Às vezes me pego dando conselhos sobre coisas que não aplico à minha própria vida .

Eu me identifico com essa história do Mahatma Gandhi:

Uma mãe levou seu filho ao Mahatma Gandhi e implorou: “por favor, Mahatma, peça ao meu filho para não comer açúcar”. Gandhi, depois de uma pausa, pediu: “me traga seu filho daqui a duas semanas”.

Duas semanas depois, ela voltou com o filho. Gandhi olhou bem fundo nos olhos do garoto e disse: “não coma açúcar”.

Agradecida – mas perplexa – a mulher perguntou: ” por que me pediu duas semanas? Podia ter dito a mesma coisa antes!”

E Gandhi respondeu: “há duas semanas atrás, eu estava comendo açúcar”.

Mahatma Gandhi

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